Imagine your perfect 10…
One second she’s standing there bored, staring at her phone, going about her day.
.and the next she’s MASSIVELY turned on.
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As you engage her in conversation and flirtation, she goes from being skeptical at first.to curious.to intensely mesmerized.
You go from just a random guy on the street to THE Guy she’s been dying to meet her whole life.
A cool, confident, high-value guy…
… who challenges her and gives her butterflies with just a look and a tease.
It’s very on.
And it’s only been 30 seconds!
You’re a little shocked at first.
You try and conceal the excitement of having YOUR perfect 10 practically drooling at your every word.
But this isn’t an accident.
You didn’t “get lucky”
And it’s got nothing to do with looks or money. (She knows next to nothing about you.)
Instead it’s got everything to do with what you’re doing.
.what you’re saying.
.how you’re saying it.
.and the critical ATTRACTION SWITCHES you’re flipping one by one.
Attraction switches that you could have never even guessed were there just a couple weeks before.
The truth is I don’t think about attraction at all.
When I go into a club or hit the streets during the day, I’m not worried about “getting attraction” in the slightest.
It just happens.
Again. And again. And again.
At this point, Attraction is
pretty much an afterthought.
Ok, not EVERY girl.
But realistically speaking, a significant majority of the hot girls I approach end up “hooking” in 30 seconds or less.
And yes, that’s all the time you need.
In my experience, if you DON’T hook her in the first 30 seconds, you’re pretty much done.
But it wasn’t always like this for me.
After years of confusion and hitting my head against the wall, I LEARNED this skill cold.
To the point where I don’t have to think about it ever.
And so can you.
In fact very few people know the complete truth about attraction.
That’s because Attraction is Highly
The guys you assume would crush it end up being practically celibate.
And the guys who you think are total losers very often end up hooking up with 5 or 6 new stunners a month.
(Not to brag, but I once had sex with 25 women in a month and it was the least productive month of my life.)
As a professional dating coach for the last 15 years, I’ve seen my students end up having some of the absolute craziest hookups.
Fat dudes pulling porn stars.
Short dudes (like myself) with playmates.
Regular average guys getting threesomes with the 9’s and 10’s that ignored them in high school and college.
And reformed “nice” guys ending up with stunner girlfriends and wives that they could once only dream about.
How are these match-ups even possible?
What makes some of the most sought after women in the world go absolutely nuts for regular everyday Joe’s?
At the end of the day, it all comes down to one thing:
They don’t want you to hook up with hot girls.
Who’s “they”, you ask?
Society, your parents, your friends, coworkers, teachers, magazines, movies, social media, etc.
They want you to think that only the rich, tall, successful, jacked guys get the hot girls.
I’M HERE TO TELL YOU THAT THEY DON’T KNOW SHIT
Especially when it comes to sex and dating.
For a woman, how she FEELS about a guy usually determines what she’ll end up doing with him.
AT THE END OF THE DAY, ATTRACTION IS JUST A POWERFUL EMOTION
An incredibly powerful one.
Every single hot girl on Earth is constantly on a roller-coaster of emotional ups and downs when it comes to guys, dating and sex.
And if you’re aware of what attraction switches she wants and needs flipped.
.then you become the outlet for all her sexual and romantic needs and fantasies.
The funny thing is that most of the time, 99% of guys HAVE NO F#*@ING CLUE what they’re doing.
Even though it was 15 years ago, I remember what not having a clue was like for me.
The funny thing is this:
Attraction is NOT intuitive for men.
When most guys think they’re being smooth and cool, they’re usually actively PUSHING THE GIRL AWAY and creeping her the fuck out!
(That also goes for alot of guys that have spent learning the wrong kind of game.)
At the end of the day, making a girl attracted to you is a simple process:
Flip the right switches, and you have attraction.
Accidentally flip JUST ONE of the WRONG switches.and you come off as creepy, pushy, and weird.
And the thing is.it’s so damn easy to flip a wrong switch.